Fuck now I have to go find that post again hahahaha
Okay, here we go…
8. Describe your crush
Touche, I have both a crush and boyfriend. Okay so it’s less a crush and more she’s a really cool friend who I’ve had drunken makeouts with a handful of times. But she’s super pretty and intelligent and I love to listen to her talk about politics because she’s so passionate about it all even though I understand about 15% of what she refers too because I’m an uninformed baka haha.
21. Do you think someone has feelings for you?
Uuuuuuh maybe? I know my boyfriend loves me, and my being into the ‘crush’ I talked about is mutual but other than that I honestly don’t like to speculate. Because it makes me feel awkward if I project potentially non-existent feelings onto people I’m close with and then have to deal with that possibility and constantly close down anything that may or may not be an advance etc.
33/34. Have you ever had sex with a man or woman?
Yes to the first. No to the second. Not from lack of interest though.
42. How long can you just kiss until your hands start to wander?
It really depends on the situation. If I’m in private with the kissee, then what’s to stop me getting a bit frisky if that’s what the mood calls for. If it’s in public, I try to keep my hands above board (that is to the face, back of head and shoulder areas, maybe some side-tickling)
55. Share a relationship story
Oh, okay. I started uni this year, and I meet a nice guy during orientation week and we shared a lot of interests. He introduced me to Magic: The Gathering, we saw a couple movies, we started only seeing each other at uni…. The whole thing lasted about a month and I saw hime maybe 3 or 4 times in the last two weeks? And we never got past just making out. It was very disappointing =v= (I told him it wasn’t working out, he kind of shrugged and since we just see each other at club meets for MTG)
77. What’s your opinion on age differences in relationships?
In my opinion the only thing important is maturity. I spent about 3 months with a guy 5 years older than me, but who had just started his first year of uni like me. In the end the relationship broke up because he wanted different things from it (AKA eventual marriage, babies etc.) and I wanted to experiment more in terms of ‘sexual partners’ (AKA I wanted a bit of freedom to maybe kiss girls and that made him insecure). Moral of the story is, because I was younger, there were a lot of opportunities I hadn’t had yet and getting into a long, committed, restrictive relationship wasn’t what I wanted or really what was best for me. At his age however, it matters less because he’d already played around/decided what he wanted. In the end, if the two people are happy, I say don’t interfere. Unless someone is under aged or incapable of understanding the impact of relationships, they should be able to make their own decisions.
85. Would you ever date someone off of the internet?
This one I can only leave as a BIG maybe. I know there are a lot of people who can make it work, but ultimately I probably wouldn’t want to do it with anyone from overseas, simply because asking one or the other party to uproot their lives OVER CONTINENTS for something that might not work out in person is something I wouldn’t want to be part of. Within the country though, maybe. Australia is kind of a lot smaller than America, travel is not such an ordeal (that I know off) and it would be a lot easier to spend a bit of time together before deciding if something would work out.
That and I don’t see myself living anywhere but Australia, at least for a while